Expat dating for singles who live abroad
Meet expats and internationals near you who already know what life far from home is like.
- Free profile
- No card needed to join
- Free ID check
- Adults 18+ only
ExpatSingles in short
ExpatSingles is an expat dating site for single adults who live abroad and want to date someone who understands that life. You create a free profile, say where you live now and what you are looking for, and ExpatSingles suggests members near you every day.
- Free to start: your profile, daily match suggestions and the ID check cost nothing.
- Built around life abroad: add interests such as Language Exchange, Expat Meetups or Working Abroad, so matches see your story at a glance.
- Private by default: members see your username and nearest town, never your real name, email or address.
- VIP for more: unlimited messages, filters for city and distance, and a list of everyone who likes you.
Why try online dating abroad?
Dating abroad starts with a handicap: your circle is new, the language or the customs can trip up a first date, and a mainstream app shows you everyone nearby, including people who are only visiting. Expat dating on ExpatSingles narrows the field to people who chose a life like yours, so a first message can start with where you live now rather than where you come from.
- People who get it. Members live abroad or want to date someone who does, so a move, a work contract or family in another time zone needs no long explanation.
- Matches that fit your week. Daily suggestions are based on age, distance and what you want, from new friends to a long-term relationship.
- Interests made for expats. Profiles can show Intercultural Love, Language Exchange, Remote Work or Travelling With Pets, and shared interests count in your matches.
- Safer first contact. A free ID check earns a Verified badge, and ExpatSingles flags it when a match wants to switch to WhatsApp or another app, a common first step in romance scams.
Who is ExpatSingles for?
ExpatSingles is for single adults aged 18 and over who live outside the country they grew up in, and for locals who would like to date someone with an international story. Whether you moved for a job, for study, for love or for a slower life in the sun, you can say so on your profile and meet people who made a similar move.
It runs in the browser on your phone or computer, and on a phone you can add it to your home screen like an app. Most members live in Germany, the Netherlands, Australia, Ireland, the US, Canada, Spain, the UK, Singapore and Belgium, and you can join from anywhere. The city guides for London, Berlin, Amsterdam, Madrid and Lisbon show the neighbourhoods expats live in and where they meet.
Members
Expat singles you could meet
Live ExpatSingles profiles with a username and nearest town, ID-verified members first.
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Tilly2, 57
Chester
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ID verified Samalk, 32
Brisbane
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Elina124, 41
West Hoxton
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Shey, 50
Bilbao
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ID verified KensterKenna, 50
Exeter
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StunningPrincess4588cf, 71
Santa Gertrudis
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FunnySharkbabe, 48
Penrith
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Ausziehh, 52
Lake Albert
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Sam, 57
Nottingham
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Bobbydog, 84
Hemel Hempstead
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moose44, 66
Brighton
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juicyBarbie001, 38
Chicago
What members say
“I like that site”
Denis, Dundee, UK
“Very good”
Amir1349, Ryde, Australia
“sehr gut sehr übersichtlich leicht zu Handhaben..”
(German: very good, very clear, easy to use)
Calcedon, Neukirchen, Germany
“Toppie”
(Dutch: great)
Langem, Arnhem, Netherlands
Reviews members left on ExpatSingles, quoted as written. Translations in brackets are ours.
How it works
How expat dating works here
Four steps from a free profile to a first date in your new city.
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Make your free profile
Pick a username, add a photo and tick the interests that fit your life abroad.
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Get daily matches
ExpatSingles suggests members near you every day, by age, distance and what you are looking for.
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Show you are real
The ID check is free and adds a Verified badge. No documents to hand? A live video check with a moderator works too.
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Chat, then meet
You can send a few messages a day for free, and VIP makes them unlimited. When you click with someone, meet somewhere public for your first date.
Ready to see which expat singles live near you? Your profile is free.
Join freeHow ExpatSingles keeps you safe
Safety matters more when you are new in a country and your circle is still small.
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Safe usernames
You pick a username for your profile; your real name and your email address stay out of sight of other members.
What it means Your profile is hard to trace to your social media.
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Location privacy
Members see the town or city closest to you. Your street address and where you are right now stay hidden.
What it means Nobody can find your front door from your profile, even in a small expat neighbourhood.
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Free ID and video checks
Take the free ID check for a Verified badge, or a live video check with a moderator if you would rather not show documents.
What it means You can see at a glance who has shown they are real.
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Scam warnings
When a match pushes to carry on over WhatsApp or another app, a classic romance-scam step, ExpatSingles notices and tells you.
What it means You get a warning before the risky part starts.
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AI and human moderation
Photos, videos and text are screened on upload, and unusual activity is flagged automatically.
What it means Fake and harmful profiles are caught earlier.
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Block, report, get help
One tap blocks a member for good, a report goes to the team from inside the site, and a real support team is on hand day and night.
What it means You decide who can reach you.
What does ExpatSingles cost?
ExpatSingles costs nothing to join: a Classic profile, daily matches and the ID check are free. VIP, which makes messaging unlimited and shows you everyone who likes you, costs €44.95 or £24.95 for one month, and less per month on longer plans.
| Feature | Classic (free) | VIP |
|---|---|---|
| Profile, photos and daily match suggestions | Yes | Yes |
| ID check and Verified badge | Yes, free | Yes, free |
| Send messages | A few a day | Unlimited |
| Search filters for city and distance | No | Yes |
| See everyone who likes you | No | Yes |
| Start a private group chat (up to 50 people) | No | Yes |
| Members-only chat rooms | No | Yes |
| VIP plan | Price in euro | Price in pounds | Per month in euro |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 week | €16.99 | £14.99 | €72.81 |
| 1 month | €44.95 | £24.95 | €44.95 |
| 3 months | €84.95 | £59.95 | €28.32 |
| 6 months | €111.95 | £74.70 | €18.66 |
| 12 months | €169.95 | £119.88 | €14.16 |
Plans of up to six months renew until you cancel; the 12-month plan does not renew automatically. ExpatSingles also sells VIP in US, Australian and Canadian dollars and other currencies. See what each membership includes.
Expat dating city guides
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Germany
Berlin
Berlin for internationals: the neighbourhoods, the meeting spots, the local dating culture.
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Questions about ExpatSingles
Is ExpatSingles free?
ExpatSingles is free to start. Without paying you can:
- make a profile and browse members
- get daily match suggestions
- take the ID check
Free members can also send a few messages a day. VIP makes messaging unlimited and adds advanced search filters and a list of everyone who likes you. A month of VIP costs €44.95, £24.95, US$39.95 or A$64.95, and longer plans cost less per month. See what each membership includes.
Do I need VIP to send messages?
No, you do not need VIP to send messages on ExpatSingles: free members can send a few messages a day and join the group chat rooms once verified. VIP makes messaging unlimited and shows you everyone who likes you.
What is expat dating?
Expat dating is dating while you live in a country that is not your own, usually with other expats, internationals or locals who are open to someone from elsewhere. On ExpatSingles it means a profile that says where you live now, matches near you and people who already understand life abroad.
Who can join ExpatSingles?
Any single adult aged 18 or over can join ExpatSingles, whether you live abroad yourself or would like to date someone who does. You say who you are looking for when you sign up, and your daily matches reflect that.
Are the profiles on ExpatSingles real?
The profiles on ExpatSingles are made by members, and every member can take the free ID check or a live video check with a moderator to earn a badge. Look for the Verified badge, keep the chat on ExpatSingles until you have met, and never send money to someone you have not met. ExpatSingles also warns you when someone tries to move the conversation to another app.
Which countries can I use ExpatSingles in?
You can use ExpatSingles wherever you live, in the browser on your phone or computer. Most members live in Germany, the Netherlands, Australia, Ireland, the US, Canada, Spain, the UK, Singapore and Belgium, and the city guides cover London, Berlin, Amsterdam, Paris, Madrid, Lisbon and more.
Is there an ExpatSingles app?
ExpatSingles works as a web app: open it in your phone's browser, add it to your home screen, and it opens like any other app, with no app-store download. On a computer it runs in the browser.
Who can see my ExpatSingles profile?
Other ExpatSingles members can see your username, your photos and your nearest town. Your real name, your email and your exact address are never shown, and you can block or report anyone from within the site.
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